You all will have to get over it forgive me if this has already been talked about in this now 33 page thread but I'm old and can't remember what I may or may not have read 10, 15, 20, 25, or 30 pages ago😉
Doesn't it simplify things if you simply base everyone's handicap off the same course rating and slope? Either base the women's handicap off the men's rating or vice versa. Seems that would at least give you a better handicap comparison and reveal a little better how they match up.